a
man
is
interested
in
me,
he
gives
me
his
phone
number?
This
is
stupid.
If
he
wants
to
ask
me
out
or
have
sex,
he
needs
to
ask
for
my
number
and
then
give
me
a
call.
I’m
not
going
to
do
his
pursuing
for
him.
guy
from
the
gym
and,
no,
I’m
not
on
steroids.
Maybe
if
you
asked
me
how
I
got
this
way
instead
of
rolling
your
ass
to
gym
only
around
New
Year’s,
you
would
finally
keep
that
six-pack
abs
resolution.
My
friend
just
got
out
of
the
hospital
because
mold
was
growing
in
his
lungs!
Wake
up,
guys!
who
thinks
“bigger
guys”
account
for
rising
medical
costs:
I’m
a
bigger
guy
with
health
insurance
and
no
health
problems.
But
I
do
struggle
with
my
weight
and
it’s
not
about
self-control
or
being
lazy.
straight
people
hate
us.
I
read
“Bitch
Session,”
and
I
get
annoyed
by
these
silly
rants
about
nothing
important.
are
dropping
like
flies.
Use
a
damn
rubber!
Get
a
grip
and
live!
know
you
borrowed
her
arms?
Get
off
the
nelly
crosstrainer
already
and
pick
up
a
barbell
sometime,
if
you
can.
immaculate
hiking
boots
on
men.
They’d
have
more
character
—
and
so
would
you
—
if
they
were
actually
used
on
a
mountain
trail
now
and
then.
looks
to
judge
their
superiority
often
end
up
paying
for
a
lot
of
plastic
surgery
to
keep
their
illusion
of
superiority.
know
that
some
of
us
have
seen
the
insides
of
sex
clubs
in
both
the
U.S.
and
Europe.
What
we
do
not
know
is
how
slutty
a
boy
needs
to
be
to
notice
the
cleanliness
of
the
floor
in
a
dim
sex
club.
“pornography
does
not
actually
hurt
women”:
That’s
wrong.
Porn
encourages
(straight)
men
to
think
of
women
as
objects,
not
people.
And
there
actually
are
women
trapped
in
prostitution
and
porn
who
do
not
run
away
for
fear
of
being
beaten
or
killed.
start
to
encourage
our
friends
to
stay
away
from
these
troubled
youth
who
will
take
money
for
sex?
Why
can’t
we
speak
out
about
the
dangers
of
elderly
men
attracted
to
young,
poor
kids?
of
the
day:
There
are
older
men
who
are
assholes
and
there
are
younger
men
who
are
assholes.
Stop
limiting
yourself
to
appearances
and
types.
You
are
the
only
one
who
loses.
-looking,
athletic,
and
doing
well.
I’m
also
41,
half-white
and
half-minority,
and
in
the
gayborhood
those
things
are
the
kiss
of
death.
constitutes
“good
service”
at
a
sex
club?
who
go
on
talk
shows:
I
know
you’re
broke
and
need
attention,
but
isn’t
President
Bush
doing
a
good
enough
job
of
hating
us
without
you
confirming
his
stupid
logic?
seven
months
of
my
life
dating
a
45-year-old
man
I
met
online.
He
lied
about
his
age,
his
life,
history,
finances
and
more.
It
would
be
so
much
easier
if
people
could
just
be
honest
with
each
other.
came
out
at
25!
Why
is
it
there
are
support
groups
for
college
age
and
younger,
and
groups
for
middle-aged
people,
but
nothing
for
me?
I
need
help,
too!
upset
about
the
“gymtrons”
hanging
out
with
bears:
When
the
gym
boys
don’t
talk
to
you,
they’re
rude.
But
when
they
do,
they’re
intruding
on
your
“scene.”
Make
up
your
mind.
It’s
just
possible
they’re
really
nice
and
are
looking
to
meet
guys
outside
the
gym.
had
no
confidence
when
we
met.
Over
the
years,
I
managed
to
convince
him
of
his
worth
as
a
person.
Now
he
doesn’t
have
the
time
for
a
quick
call
just
to
see
how
I’m
doing.
I
would
never
treat
anyone
the
way
I’ve
been
treated.
I
fell
in
love
with,
taught
how
to
work
out
at
the
gym,
bought
new
clothes
from
Gap,
and
was
proud
to
stand
beside:
You
got
your
new
body,
new
look,
new
attitude
and
decided
to
boink
your
ex.
I
still
love
you.
I
just
love
me
more.
who
watch
“Desperate
Housewives”:
I
know
you
miss
“Sex
&
the
City,”
but
“Housewives”
is
morally
degrading.
Just
because
a
gay
man
made
it
doesn’t
make
it
good.
Too
Drunk:
Just
because
I
wear
low-rise,
bootfit
jeans
and
they
fit
me
well
doesn’t
mean
I
want
something
in
my
butt.
